Planning For My Children’s Education


Parents should start saving for their children’s future since they were born. The Chinese and Jewish parents are known to have started planning for their newborns’ education even before they have yet to see the world. Bringing up children is not an easy task nowadays because we, parents, have to ensure our children are given the best education ever so that they will be equipped with the sufficient academic and religious knowledge.
I also save some money for my children’s education. This is compulsory as I don’t want to borrow money from other people when I need to send out my girls to colleges later. I started by keeping some money in ‘Lembaga Tabung Haji’ as this statutory body has the salary deduction service. This means I don’t have to go to any of its branch to deposit money.

In addition, I also open savings accounts at Maybank for them. But saving money in the local bank is not a practical way to invest your money. So, I also open Amanah Saham Wawasan 2020 accounts with the hope that it will generate more bonuses for them. On top of that, my girls also have the SSPN (Sijil Simpnan Pendidikan Nasional) accounts each and the money will be withdrawn once they enroll at any public local universities.

Lastly, I also buy Takaful Malaysia certificates for them with the initial contribution of RM20. Small it may be, but it will come in handy when they need the money to further their studies.

In conclusion, I strongly encourage all parents out there to start saving some money for your children’s education. Don’t rely too much on the PTPTN as the cost of higher education is getting more expensive year by year.

Dalili is now 4 years old

My middle daughter, Nur Alis Dalili turned 4 on January 17, 2010 so I decided to celebrate her birthday on a smaller scale due to the economic downturn that all Malaysians are facing right now. There was no black forest birthday this year as I had ordered a Sarawak layer cake from my former student who went back to visit her grandma in Sri Aman recently. It costs me RM25.

Then, on the fateful day, this birthday girl received a small teddy bear from her favourite kindergarten teacher, Cikgu Shima. Dalili and her younger sister, Dahlia, are fond of her as she is the one whom they will turn to when they cry. If I scold them, they will call Cikgu Shima’s name!

In the evening, I bought fifty skewers of satays for my three girls but they did not fancy this food. Lastly, my younger brother and I ended eating all the satays… It seems that my new year’s resolution of losing weight has gone to the drain.


My daughter is addicted to the Internet


I believe that kids nowadays are more advanced than their predecessors in every aspect, for example, information technology, exam results and social ills. Just look at the number of top scorers in the public exams. During my time, it was a rare phenomenon to see a student scored straight As in SPM. But, last year, a Kelantanese girl scored 191A’s. That’s definitely awesome!
But what I want to write here is about my eldest daughter, Dalilah. She has started to pick up some internet browsing skills by observing her father using his notebook almost every day. I have never taught her how to search for video clips in YouTube, but she is able to do it somehow. After watching a movie on television, she will search for the similar title online with the hope that she can download and watch it offline. At this moment, she is hooked to online girl games such as Barbie, Princess and Winx Club. Sometimes, she fights for the internet access with me and her uncle. I have a Celcom Mobile Broadband service at home, so the three of us take turn to browse the Internet. My brother is a heavy YM chatter while I spend most of my time online by blogging and making new friends through facebook and hi5.
What I can conclude here is that children should be exposed to the Internet but the parents must control their children so that they do not venture into the dark side of the cyber world.

Dalilah’s Mini Convocation


The big day finally came but with heavy torrential rains in Kelantan, my spirit of celebrating my eldest daughter’s final day at her kindergarten almost went downhill. I was stranded at my sister’s bungalow in the village on the fateful Saturday morning. The sole access road to Machang was heavily flooded so I was worried if my eight-year-old Wira could not pass through. At first I did not want to attend the function, but my sister urged me be there as it was the historic day for her niece. So off I went with Dalilah and her younger sister, Dalili.
True to my belief, ahead lying a stretch of 100-metre flooded passage waiting for me to drive through. Thank God, I managed to accomplish the mission despite feeling my car turned into a boat.
We arrived at the Town Hall at 9.15 am. Luckily, the event had yet to start as the school administration had to wait for the other parents and pupils who might have stranded on their way there. The event finally started at 9.30 with all pupils sang their kindergarten theme song. Then, a bubbly girl came onstage to tell a folktale followed by my girl who was chosen by her teacher to recite a poem entitled ‘My School’. Dalilah was the fifth in her class but she came out top in the English Language Paper.
Then, all six-year-old students received their scrolls, signifying their completion of studies at the kindergarten, from the guest-of-honour, Tuan Haji Izhab Ismail. The VIP is actually a friend of mine who is now holding a top post in the district education office.
The event ended at 11.15 and all parents and pupils were treated to fried noodles and ‘roti jala’. It was a simple but consequential occasion, especially to the children involved.